when I was 13, I had heard about chastity cages from class mates and others at school. As a typical curious kid, I went on the internet and searched up all about it and for some reason, really liked the idea and became very curious if wearing a cage long term while going through puberty, if it will cause my penis to shrink? Or will it stunt the growth of my penis, and prevent it from “fully developing”, and cause it to stay in the current state it is now?

It was (and still is) very fascinating to me. I had read on some forums that long-term wearing of a chastity cage does cause shrinkage. I admit, that a big part of me hoped that was true. I really liked the idea of having my penis shrink (idk why). I had a late start with puberty already, because a few of my friends started their puberty when they were twelve and thirteen. I was just starting to hit puberty when I started chastity.

Like I was said, a big part of me kind of hoped that if I wear the cage long enough, it would cause shrinkage, or possibly stunt the growth of my penis, or cause my penis do not go through puberty, or all the above.? And a big part of me wanted it to happen. Why? Idk, other than mnorbid curiosity and soemthing I was really drawn to. I really liked the idea of getting to be 18 or 19, and having a really small, and unchanged penis.?

I am/was very aware of how it can affect my possible relationships with girls or anything else down the road regarding relationships in general, and I was perfectly okay with that, and still am. I did a lot of research, and have found a lot of forums that talk about this kind of stuff, and talk about what it's like to be in a relationship while wearing a cage, or having a small penis.

But none of those forums talk about wearing a cage through puberty.

Now that I am 18, I felt that I could finally share all of this on this chastity tracking page that I've been on for the last 4 years.

I eased myself into it. 1 day on, 1 day off; 3 days on, 1 day off; 1 week; then 3 weeks; 1 month; 3 months; 6 months; then a year; then 3 years, then finally--permanently. I started August 22 of 2022 wearing the device. I am currently at the on year-3 of my 3-year-lock

When first starting out, I found that distractions work; like video games, or going outside to do something. Between 3–6 months, the frequency of urges or getting hard decreased a lot, and after about 1 year, it doesn’t react at all. I still have arousal, but in a different way? It just doesn’t get hard, or grow, and there is a little bit of back pressure from the cage, which feels good. About 6 months in, I did have to downsize from my original cage size. At my current size, the cage is not visible and does not get in the way of sports or outside activities. I am often times looked at funny when in the showers, because I wear a swim suit, but I don’t really care. I do admit that every 3–4 months, I do take the cage off briefly just to make sure everything is clean. It has consistently remained clean even while in the cage, so my frequency of removing the cage will probably go to ever 9 months, or 12 months, but for the most part I am still able to clean myself through the cage.

I have now actually dated a couple of girls very seriously, and there is always the topic of sex that does come up. I have tried to find ways to not talk about the chastity just yet, but it has come up which then I’m always worried that they will get upset and talk rumors at school. However, thankfully that has not been the case. I was really lucky in the fact that both times, they actually seemed interested in it and asked a lot of questions, and wanted to see it several times. They would comment on its size and said they thought it was cute, but smaller than what they thought it would be. Which then I’d have to explain that mine is only this size because of the cage and that most are bigger. Both times when explaining this it caused more questions to be asked. Both times, the girl and I would end up dating for several months, and as far as sexual interaction, it went fairly well? I mean, they said they liked what I did when we would do certain things, but both times the relationships ended, because they wanted to get experience and have sex, which would not be doable with me. No hard feelings. I mean, yeah it sucks, but I totally get where they are coming from. And one expressed interest in maybe revisiting the relationship again down the road, once she feels she has had her fill.

I do still get aroused and feel excitement or get turned on, but my size is smaller and as far as I can tell, whatever puberty should be happening seems to be stunted, or not taking place. And as I said, I don’t get hard anymore. Even if/when you get aroused, cage acts as a constant barrier of preventing erections. The feeling of arousal and “erection” is there, or desired, and it does feel good but there is no action or reaction that happens in response because the cage prevents it. And at this point it wouldn’t get hard at all anyway. But my penis sensitivity has increased a lot! To the point that touching it directly can be too much. I can orgasm pretty quick if I need/want to. It usually just takes a minute or so of pressing on, or “jiggling” the cage around. At this point though, I've become so used to wearing the cage that it just feels like everyday life and doesn't bug me, and I have become more sensitive in a way. I can orgasm just with moving, or light grinding, or using vibrations from my phone on the cage.